The Opposite of Nesting

Alan and I have been improving our house since the day we moved in. Alan is the driving force behind the renovations and updates, the Home Depot trips and the power tool purchases. I participated fully at first, when my energy was high, my belly didn't get in the way, and the projects involved paint brushes.

But then power tools and pot bellies entered the picture. My belly grew as projects grew increasingly more complex. I'm as helpful as I can be, but much to Alan's chagrin, I'm not quite as agile as I once was.

The lack of help from me hasn't stopped Alan from charging ahead on projects though. And I'm fully supportive because I know that once the baby is here, it's going to be a lot more difficult to carve out the time and energy for big home improvements.

Besides dealing with hidden surprises like The Plurb, and this stenciled mural, which greets us every day as we enter the house from our side entrance...

...or head to the basement...


...we're also dealing with real eyesores, like dirty, nasty linoleum that is coming up at the edges around the kitchen. So we've been looking at floor tiles, talking to the tiling guys, buying tiling books.

And we decided that now was the time to tile our kitchen. Nay, destroy our kitchen. Now, when we're less than six weeks away from our due date. Now, when I can't bend to help Alan with flooring whatsoever. Now.

But we don't turn away from a challenge or a deadline. We turn up our doing-dials and GO GO GO.


After pulling up some linoleum, we discovered that we have hardwood floors in the kitchen. Um, yay! A home improver's dream come true! We had momentary fantasies of throwing out the tiling books and refinishing the hardwoods. Until we dug down a little further and discovered that only the edges of the hardwoods could actually be called "hardwood floors." Because the rest? Completely BLACK. Black...like tar? And something had been nailed over them. And that something had been pulled up. Leaving nails with remnants of whatever material it was under the nails. Everywhere. All over the black hardwoods.

So tiling it is! And so the destruction begins.


I really was reading What to Expect When You're Expecting when Alan snapped this picture. He told me to look concerned as I surveyed his handiwork. I didn't have to try too hard. Marti is also concerned.

You'd think this would be giving me panic attacks, but the funny thing is that I was most apprehensive before the project started. I guess I now see all of the chaos as progress.

The stove, refrigerator and dishwasher are all now in the dining room. The floors are completely ripped up. The tile has been decided. Now all that's left is to rebuild. And eat out every day for a week or so. (Please let it be a week or so.)